Kahala Mandarin Oriental. Minutes from the bustle of Waikiki, this classic Hawaiian resort opens its arms to new guests as if they were personal friends of the staff. Stunning views of the ocean, classic furnishings, and ornate Tibetan rugs might tempt you to stay in your honeymoon suite for the entire trip. Don’t disappoint your beach butler. Get outside and enjoy a private breakfast on the sand. Swim with dolphins. Hop on an outrigger. The hotel staff will help make your wildest honeymoon dreams come true. Kahala Mandarin Oriental, 5000 Kahala Avenue, Honolulu, HI96816. 808-739-8888. http://www.mandarinoriental.com

Lodge at Koele. Escape the tourists on the big island and head for this elegant country estate on the island of Lana’i. Guests describe the staff as eager, if not desperate, to serve you. Classic activities like horseback riding and croquet set the tone for this genteel resort. Tell the concierge that it’s your honeymoon, and don’t be surprised if fresh orchids start appearing wherever you go. The Lodge at Koele and the Manele Bay Hotel, 1311 Fraser Avenue, Lana'i City, HI96763. 808-565-7700. http://www.lodgeatkoele.com

Princeville Resort. The lush, green landscape suggests you may have landed in paradise. Sumptuous honeymoon suites with private spas look out on relaxing Hanalei Bay. During the day, play golf on one of the most exotic courses in the world, or trek out on hiking and scuba expeditions. Cap off your evening with a romantic dinner at the outdoor café. Princeville Resort, 5520 Ka Haku Rd., Princeville, Kauai, HI96722. 808-826-9644. http://www.princeville.com

Ritz-Carlton Kapalua. Though it’s billed as Hawaii’s premier golf resort, the staff love any opportunity to create lasting memories for honeymooners. Let them pamper you with fresh tropical flowers with breakfast in bed. While you’re enjoying side-by-side spa treatments, they’re tossing rose petals on your bed to prepare for a romantic evening.

Ritz-Carlton Kapalua, One Ritz Carlton Drive, Kapalua, HI96761. 808-669-6200. http://www.ritzcarlton.com