Stop and Start. Face it. Most of us learned to come quickly for fear that someone would walk in on us in the bathroom / dorm room / elevator... If you feel yourself ready to peak, put on the emergency brakes. Breathe deeply to get oxygen flowing through your system, and focus on keeping the rhythm going by stimulating your bride with your hands or with your tongue. If you can buy yourself a minute or two without stopping her action, she can catch up with you. Learn clever stalling techniques from “The New Male Sexuality:” http://url123.com/xga6w.
Squeeze! If stopping the action doesn’t feel like it’s going to help, take matters into your own hands, literally. Squeeze your penis, without massaging or stimulating it any further. You can stall yourself and actually wind back the clock a little bit if you catch yourself in time. If you’re marrying a particularly talented girl, you can even stay inside her and have her squeeze you tight with her Kegel muscles. (Chances are, however, that if you’re using this technique, this isn’t the first time you’ve been in bed together.) Get more squeezing advice from “Sexercise:” http://url123.com/xg5vu.
Clean Your Pipes. The Farrelly Brothers weren’t totally kidding when they popularized the “clean pipes” idea in There’s Something About Mary. Sex experts confirm that masturbating a few hours before your planned encounter can keep you from peaking too quickly, as well as reduce your stress through the rest of the day. We’ll leave you to your own devices on this one, but you can still find copies of “There’s Something About Mary” at Amazon.com: http://url123.com/xbv6r.
